A LITTLE PRETENSE WILL GET YOU SOMEWHERE.

Pretenders may be worse than murderers but we all have to do some pretending at one point in our lives, and dating is one of them. Like a doctor who has specialized in medicine so does a pretender need to specialize in presence?

  Most girls have asked this question over and over again, how does such a good man end up with such a bad girl? Or how come all the good guys get the bad girls. The ship has sailed for the girl next door, it’s gone but those of us left behind can catch  this other  bus and still go places, so listen up and listen good.

   Men will go on and on about the way they like the natural girl, the one that doesn’t wear make up yada yada yada yada ……….don’t listen to that it’s a whole load of crap, Then all the girls wearing make up would be single, in case you haven’t noticed, they are not. If that is the reason you stopped wearing make up you can slap it back on your face. The truth is men don’t know what, what they do know is what they don’t want and Commitment unfortunately is top on their list of no no’s.

So the question is how to suck them into one without there knowing.

A man doesn’t go looking for a longtime commitment when entering into a relationship. He is probably looking for someone to share time with and have fun while at it. They ran away from commitment, hide away from it and detect any person trying to put them in that dreadful position. The truth is men read a lot from appearance and if they can’t read anything from yours they’ll try and read it from the first conversation or your first date. That’s whey you’ve got to do it right the first time.

         The girl with the makeup on, stilettos, tight pants, short skirt, tells a whole new story, a story that men understand so well, she tells a story of  been there done that, a story most men love uncovering. While we cannot all go wearing stilettos or mini skirts we can do something to level up with the other chicken in the race.

   Your first date with that guy you’ve heard your eye’s on is not the place to bear out your heart and soul  to him, telling him what you want in a relationship, how the last one ended up, how you love science fiction novels, how you love this, hate that, never done this that, I guess what am trying to say is SHUTUP ALREADY!A little mystery please? Men love challenges and when you leave so much unrevealed he’ll come searching for the answers, he doesn’t have to know that your last relationship was one year ago or the fact that you hate soccer so much, let him discover that three months later when you bring down all his football posters off his bedroom wall, then he’ll have liked you enough to forgive you easily. You get; your true colors later the girl he thinks he wants now. Therefore the first couple of dates will have you at your best, the you every guy can fall in love with. Am not talking about a total makeover am saying that you can pretend to be interested in his long stories about cars, or the ones about his favorite football team, you can also pretend it’s okay that you waited for him for over an hour when usually five minutes is max for you. Do it all for the future, because it is in this future when he’ll have fallen in love with you and there is nothing he can do about it.

If that doesn’t work with this guy try it with the next guy and the next and the next until you get it right, and that’s how bad girls get good boys.